Suburbianty: Book Reflection

Suburbianity: Book Reflection | Roots like Oaks

What have we done to the Gospel? Can we find our way back to Biblical Chrisitanity?”

These are the subtitle questions Suburbianity by Pastor Byron Yawn seeks to answer. I would sum up the term “suburbianity” as nominal, culturally-defined Christianity which preaches and believes a false gospel of self-esteem boosting spiritual jargon, loosely tied to Jesus. This book was convicting, thought-provoking, and a great conversation starter. In just over 200 pages, Pastor Byron basically makes the case that suburbianity is not the gospel; indeed, the gospel is the gospel and we ought not forget it.

In his introduction, Pastor Byron makes a series of statements designed to gauge your understanding of Christianity as compared to suburbianity. They are statements like:

Being a Christian is not about being a good person.
Wealth is not a sign of God’s favor.
There is no essential difference between local and world missions.
Jesus would be confused in many of our church services.
Vegetables can’t sing. (p. 11-13)

While I agree with most of his statements wholeheartedly, some (most even, I would argue) need more fleshing out than 226 pages can contain. He counters the critic with “A Rejoinder” at the end of the book which gives one scriptural defense for each statement. Pastor Byron is attempting to “pull evangelical fish out of water” in order to objectively look at what we’ve been swimming in (p. 14). I think it’s obvious that he is going for shock value with many of his statements, sort of a big wake-up call to those inundated with Christian subculture.

Byron Yawn pastors in Nashville, TN: the heart of the “Bible Belt.” I live in one of the most un-churched, socially liberal (but highly “spiritual”) regions in the U.S.–that is I live in the suburbs of Denver, CO. But fascinatingly enough, his descriptions of suburban folk in Nashville fit pretty closely with suburban folk here. Though they may not consider themselves Christians, suburban Denver folk are usually middle-class, affluent, conservative, and heavily emphasize family values. So maybe our contexts are not quite so different as geography and demographics would suggest. There are certainly plenty of people in Denver, suburbanites or otherwise, that need to hear the true gospel.

The rest of book is broken down into three parts: The Gospel, The Bible, and The Church. In the first chapter of “The Gospel,” Pastor Byron relates the story of Joe approaching him after a church service to tell him he had brought his unsaved parents with him, to which Pastor Byron replied:

“That’s great. Thanks for joining us here at Community.”

“Well actually it’s been a huge mistake. I’m sorry I brought my parents here. You’ve reinforced every stereotype they have about Christianity. I can’t believe you preached for forty-five minutes and never mentioned the gospel. This is tragic.” (p. 68)

Joe then walks away with slumped shoulders before Pastor Byron can form a response. I loved this story because of the impact it had on Pastor Byron’s life and preaching. I know I’ve felt this way before in church services and wouldn’t be able to say it with the genuine love and concern that Joe did. But I just love hearing peoples’ stories of “gospel wakefulness” (to borrow Jared C. Wilson’s term). Because, as Pastor Byron says, once the lightbulb comes on, it owns you. (p.71)

“The Bible” chapters were by far my favorite of the whole book. Here you really feel Pastor Byron’s passion for the gospel as the central message of the Bible and the point of our existence.

According to Calvary, our greatest need is not a better marriage, an improved self-image, financial success, or any other of the suburban daydreams. It’s reconciliation to a holy God. (p. 95)

He explains with zeal that Jesus is the central theme of the Bible and it is impossible to overemphasize Him. He hammers that the main point of Biblical stories and characters (Abraham, Moses, Joseph, David) is not to mimic them morally, but to see how their lives point to and culminate in Jesus.

At some places the Bible gives us a 30,000-foot view (as in the Old Testament histories), and at other times it plummets to ten inches off the deck (as in the New Testament epistles). But every book of the Bible is a description of events leading up to or disclosing Jesus and the implications of His life, death, and resurrection. (p. 115)

The Bible is either revealing [the gospel], explaining it, defending it, or encouraging us to live in light of it. (p. 115)

It is so helpful to read the Bible from this perspective. When you come to it with the self-help attitude of how-do-I-apply-this-to-me-ism, it’s so difficult to consistently read the Bible. But when you come to it with an attitude of how-do-I-apply-this-to-Jesus (and his life, death, and resurrection—i.e. the gospel) all of a sudden it all makes sense. I can attest to this personally.

“The Church” chapters are probably the most controversial because they touch on politics, strategies, ethics, missions, and what it means to have a “Biblical worldview.” These chapters are a great launching point for further conversation and are probably not intended to be the final word on how the church in America should look. He raises some excellent points about evangelizing our neighbors and considering the man in the suit and tie just as needy (for an atoning substitute) as those living in shacks in Haiti.

Overall, I’d recommend this book to anyone living in the suburbs and especially pastors or others in ministry. I would recommend it to folks subscribing to suburbianity knowing that this book will likely offend them, but with the prayer that it might open their eyes to see Jesus. I’d also recommend it to folks newly “gospel-awakened” as an encouragement to keep on keepin’ on making Jesus a big deal.

Thankful Friday…

Oops, it’s Friday already but I’m still thankful for what the Lord has done over the past week. So today I thank the Lord for…

  • Friends. We’ve been blessed to open our home to several friends this week. I’m thankful to have a home and food and seating to offer people. I’m thankful that they enjoy coming over and eating my husbands cooking. I’m thankful for a husband who is an excellent cook!
  • Biblical Expositional Preaching. Our pastor is faithful to the Word and it is such a joy to my soul. Even though I read during the week, I still come on the weekends like a dry sponge and soak up the Gospel-saturated, Biblical teaching. God’s grace through Jesus Christ is the only thing that satisfies.
  • My Great-Grandmother (Memama). This year she will be, I believe, 93 years old. She lives out of state, so I don’t get to see her much (Lord willing, I will next year), but she’s still a blessing to me. She sent me a giftcard for Christmas which I used to buy these pretty plates that grace my “Spring Mantle.” I picked them especially because they looked like something she would like. I was able to facetime with her and she confirmed that she did. Such a sweet spirit.
Our "Spring Mantle"

Our “Spring Mantle”

Here’s Wendy enjoying the “Spring Mantle”–yeah, she couldn’t care less:

WendyCouch

  • Livestreaming. Specifically the Gospel Coalition 2013 National Conference live stream. I realize this takes time and money and I so appreciate them for doing it. I didn’t catch much, but what I did catch was phenomenal. I can’t wait until all the audio is available for what I missed. My favorite, at this point, has to be Tim Keller’s “Resurrection” teaching.
  • Roots. In keeping with my blog’s name, I was thankful this week for the example of my parents marriage. My dad passed away last November, and this week they would have celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. I’m deeply thankful for the Christ-like love and sacrifice they demonstrated and the seeds of God’s word they planted and cultivated in my life.

Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him,
rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught,
abounding in thanksgiving.
Colossians 2:6-7

What are you thankful for today?

Gates of Fire: Book Reflection

Since so many (alright three) of you requested a review of my fabulous fiction read, it was enough to capitulate me. But here’s my disclaimer:

This is an R-rated book for violence, language, and some sexual content (though not crude or pornographic). If any of these things offend you, do NOT read this book. It is not for the faint of heart or the under-13 crowd. I’ll admit I almost didn’t make it through because it’s rather difficult to swallow (being an epic, gritty war novel), but I was glad by the time I got to the end.

Steven Pressfield launches you into the harsh Grecian world of 480 BC. The story is told largely from the perspective of the slave warrior Xeones (often referred to as Xeo) who serves as squire to Dienekes, one of the Spartan heroes of the book and of Greek history. Xeo has been captured by the Persian enemy as the only survivor of the battle. Their King Xerxes insists Xeo explain how Spartan warriors came to fight so valiantly at the “Hot Gates”—otherwise known as the historic Battle of Thermopylae. So there are really two stories happening: one in “the present” in italics as the scribes narrate and the other, the “historical account,” all from Xeo’s perspective. This storytelling method adds greatly to the suspense as you near the end. The narrative moves slowly at first, but picks up significantly as you move through.

My highest praise for the book is the striking prose and sentence craftsmanship of the author. He is pulling you into a completely different world and his descriptions help you see, hear, smell, feel, and taste it. I stopped multiple times just to reread beautifully constructed sentences. Unfortunately you’ll have to take my word for it since it’s not my habit to annotate fiction (another reason I was reluctant to review…no quotes, sorry!) He may not be writing about beautiful things, but he writes beautifully.

And now I must confess that this is not really a book review, which I seem incapable of. But more of a personal book reflection and further explanation of why I loved it so much.

Because of the time period and the circumstances surrounding the book, Biblical images kept coming to mind. At the beginning of the story Xeo’s hometown is completely destroyed. Pressfield’s description of the devastation of losing ones entire city helped me think about how the Israelites must have felt after the fall of Jerusalem. It gave personality to the book of Lamentations in my mind and helped me empathize as much as I can, being a comfortably suburban American. Also, when the Spartan soldiers are marching to Thermopylae, the author describes the mass exodus of people from the city to escape the pending doom of war with the Persians. I recalled the Biblical scene of the exodus out of Egypt—hasty and chaotic, and perhaps laced with some fear, although not without hope.

Several features about ancient Greek culture in the book struck me in their contrasts with Biblical truth. The book frequently references the mythological gods. Xeo especially looks to Apollo, the Archer God, who appears to him in the woods when he is near death. Xeo’s cousin, another main character, also ends up serving a goddess as her profession. But it’s clear that faith in the gods was optional. They were immortal but not infallible or morally perfect. Humans could have a tit-for-tat relationship with the gods, unless the god decided to be fickle, which they often did. Many characters in the book despise Xeo as foolish for his faith in the gods. How grateful I am to serve the one, true God who never changes and is perfectly good. How grateful I am that our relationship is not tit-for-tat but drenched in grace. And how grateful I am that God is never fickle.

Fear is a major theme in the book. Dienekes, as a Spartan officer and trainer in the “agoge” (school for young warriors), is a student of fear. He believes fear originates in the flesh. There is some Gnostic belief woven in there that the flesh is inherently bad and is something you must train to overcome and finally shed completely. Here I agree with the idea that human nature is inherently evil, but not in the idea that our bodies themselves are inherently bad. Nor do I agree with their methods of overcoming fear, though it was fascinating to read. The Spartan warriors train to steel themselves to pain: to block it out with both physical and mental exercises, to consider loyalty to Sparta first and foremost, and to fear the shame of people more than fear the pain of death. Dienekes is constantly trying to decipher the ultimate way to overcome fear. I wholeheartedly agreed with his conclusion, which he comes to at the very end: the opposite of fear is not courage as one may think, but love.

Finally, The Spartan King Leonidas is the true hero of the book and many of his traits resemble our Lord and King Jesus. Leonidas loves his city and the men he leads. Unlike King Xerxes, Leonidas fights at the forefront, leading his men into the fray, never watching from the sidelines. He is compassionate; he counts the cost of sending men to battle. He mourns with those who mourn and rejoices with those who rejoice. He is humble; he gets down among the people instead of lording his kingship over them. And most of all, *Spolier Alert (if you don’t know the history)* he sacrificially lays his life down for his people.

Overall I enjoyed this book for its literary prowess and its harkening to Biblical truths, either by contrast or by parallel. As Christians we ought always to weigh what we hear, see, and read against the word of God. If you can do that without stumbling over the gruesome, raw nature of the book, then I would recommend it to you. If not, there are plenty of other great books out there!

Redeeming the Time

Redeeming the Time

Do you have a computer or a smart phone? Of course you do, you’re reading this. Do you also have ears? I sincerely hope so. Then perhaps you can benefit from some of these free audio resources.

One of my absolute favorite things about getting an iPhone was discovering this new world of free audio resources! I believe strongly in the podcast because it can build up your mind to glorify Christ, even passively. You can be listening to something while you’re driving, folding laundry, doing dishes, cooking dinner, sweeping the floor, or changing a diaper. If you find your hands occupied but your mind free, that is a perfect time to listen to something edifying. I love “redeeming time” this way. So here are my recommendations for any and all free Christian audio you can get on your iPhone. I will indicate what’s available for android or online use as well.

Bible Apps

Youversion – iPhone, android, and online. Everyone probably knows this baby will read the Bible to you. It’s nice sometimes to have just a fatherly voice reading to you. I use this one fairly frequently, but I also like…

Bible.is – iPhone, android, & online. This app has an option for a dramatic reading of the ESV called “ESV 2001 English Standard Drama.” The dramatized version uses different voice actors for different characters and includes background music.

Podcasts – All podcasts are available for iPhone and android as long as you have a podcast app. “Onecast” and “Stitcher Radio” are free for Android. “Podcasts,” “Stitcher Radio,” and “RSSRadio” are free for iPhone  Or you can listen on a desktop through iTunes.

The Briefing – “A daily analysis of news and events from a Christian worldview.” Albert Mohler, president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, releases a new 15-20 minute podcast every weekday reviewing major headlines and other items of interest from a distinctly Christian worldview. I listen to this nearly every morning while getting ready for work or sometimes on the drive to work. It’s a great way to keep up with current events if you can’t stand the local news (like me).

Connected Kingdom – Tim Challies and David Murray offer a somewhat weekly podcast with the tagline “connecting truth with life in a digital world.” They’ve discussed many topics and currently are going through an online Old Testament and wisdom literature class.

Revive Our Hearts – This one’s for girls only, sorry guys. Her name is Nancy Leigh Demoss and the podcast is a daily encouraging word from a great women’s Bible teacher. The current series is called “How to Fall and Stay in Love with Jesus.” The previous series on “The Lord’s Prayer” was also excellent.

All About Worship – For worship-types (obviously). Wisdom Moon & Ben Abu Saada (yes, those are their real names, and they are a couple of pretty funny, laid-back guys) bi-weekly put out this podcast meant to equip, encourage, and inspire worship leaders. Their archives include interviews with many well-known worship leaders and other great resources.

Renewing Your Mind – The one and only Dr. R.C. Sproul has his daily radio broadcast of Bible teaching available as a podcast. Listen to one, you’ll be hooked I promise.

Other Apps

Ask Pastor John – iPhone or online only. A quick 5 minute daily podcast put out by Desiring God in which John Piper answers emailed questions from listeners.

Refnet – iPhone, android, and online. A 24/7 radio program, sponsored by Ligonier ministries, that includes Bible teaching, Bible readings, audiobook readings, news, and radio drama. Teachers include R.C. Sproul, John Piper, John MacArthur, Alistair Begg, Ravi Zacharias, Albert Mohler, and more.

Ligonier – iPhone, android, and online. I mention this because the app contains not only the “Renewing Your Mind” daily broadcasts, but also hours of conference messages, teaching series, and sermons.

Desiring God – iPhone, android, and online. Contains audio for hundreds of John Piper’s sermons, conference messages, and seminars. One feature I especially like is the “Browse by Scripture Index” option that allows you to see what resources are available for a particular book or passage in Scripture.

Audiobooks – iPhone, android, and online. The app is free and there are some free books available for download (many classics) and others available for purchase. Fair warning that the free audiobooks are “Libravox” recordings, meaning that they are read by volunteers, not professionals. But they are entertaining and edifying nonetheless. I’ve listened to Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson, Heretics by G.K. Chesterton, and Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin.

Do you have other favorite audio resources for smartphones? Please leave a comment and let us know!

Black and White

Black&White

“You know, there is nothing greater than deciding in your life that things maybe really are black and white!”
      –Drew Baylor, Elizabethtown

When I was a child, I thought of everything as black and white. There was clear right and wrong, justice and injustice, in or out. Unfortunately this attitude tended to spawn harshness and judgementalism in my little Pharisaical heart. Morality existed cogently, but the grace of God hadn’t gripped me yet. I began to realize that my heart posture was wrong.

Early in college, I started questioning this “black and white” worldview. I waded into the murky waters of questionable theology, allowing “right and wrong” to be flexible in certain circumstances. I listened my Christian friends from high school explain to me their new, liberated views on sexuality outside of marriage. I read books about how God wants us to feel loved and happy. I started believing that God wants us not to judge anyone for any reason and that Christianity is about never telling anyone they’re wrong. I watched the news and listened to the radio and started wondering if maybe I’d been wrong all along and things are actually quite gray. I also genuinely believed this “questioning” was liberation from my “black and white” judgmentalism. Now that I was free to think for myself about these issues and not have a religious institution, and especially not an ancient document written for a different culture at a different time, do the thinking for me, I could finally be okay with myself and at peace with the world.

After a series of events leading to God’s grace gripping my heart, I started actually reading the Bible. And you know what’s funny? It is black and white. There is right and wrong, justice and injustice, in or out. Life is exactly as black and white as I thought it was when I was a child and the answer to all of life’s problems is both glaringly obvious and paradoxically simple:

We need a Substitute.

The Gospel has brought me full circle. My heart posture was wrong, but the answer was not to compromise and question, it was to fall back on the seemingly childish truths of scripture. I am a sinner; God sent Jesus; He died for my sins; now I’m called righteous. Questioning biblical morality is not freedom from judgmentalism – grace is. A small God who serves my whims or current circumstances is not liberating – a big God who sovereignly controls everything is. We are wrong and God is right, it’s that simple. And incredibly, He provides the answer.

Web Variety

Web Variety

So many helpful and interesting articles on the web this week. Here are but a few:

How’s Your Bible Reading Going? – I used to be such a legalist about my Bible reading plans and when I’d falter, I’d despair. This article is encouraging, practical, and Gospel-grace-saturated. Perfect for the “February Blues” when you realize your New Year’s resolutions were once again a little too far reaching. Thank you to Ryan Kelly at the Gospel Coalition for this.

How Can I Sell a Godly Message Without Selling Out? Mark Driscoll writes winsomely about blogging for the glory of God and not the glory of self. Great reminder for all of us.

Believing God & Acting Like It – “When I face a disconnect between what I believe of God (His faithfulness to protect and guide my family through any situation, His nearness, His love, and His goodness even in trials) and how I act, my posture of vulnerability, fear, and distrust prove the pulse of my faith is undetectable.” Awesome post from Lindsey Carlson at Worship Rejoices.

The Ikea Effect and Relationships – What if it isn’t love that leads to labor, but labor that leads to love? Jessalyn Hutto at Desiring Virtue explores this interesting question and our culture’s resistance to working in/on relationships.

Brothers, We are Still Not Professionals Desiring God just hosted their annual Pastor’s conference. All the audio is available to download for free. I highly recommend John Piper’s talk: “Saying Beautifully as a Way of Seeing Beautifully: The Life of George Herbert and His Poetic Effort.” Life-changing, really.

How to Write a Worship Song (In 5 Minutes or Less) If you haven’t seen this satiric Youtube video yet, I offer you this link with a chuckle and a sigh. Enjoy!

“Pastor poked his head out of the study. Six more weeks of this sermon series.”
Church Curmudgeon

Thankful Thursday

I’ve been thinking about “Thankful Thursday” all week long, so these will probably seem like a random conglomeration of things, but oh well. Here we go, Thankful Thursday “Random” Edition:

  • I’m thankful for our house. It’s so nice to come home after you’ve been away, no matter how lovely the trip. On a related note, I’m also thankful for our neighbors. I used to live in an apartment complex with noisy neighbors and I’m so very thankful that our current neighbors are not only quiet and respectful but also kind and generous!  Thank God for great neighbors!
  • I’m thankful for free speech. Did you know that I can write anything I want on this blog, anything at all, and it cannot be censored or blocked? It’s amazing! I’m afraid I take for granted my own ability to communicate freely and to read/hear/watch others freely. Thank God for the First Amendment.
  • I’m thankful for this Bible study:

BecomingAWomanofPurpose

Becoming a Woman of Purpose by Cynthia Heald has been wonderful for my private study. It would be delightful in a group setting but I just dove in on my own and I’ve been so blessed. I confess that I was in the middle of a rather weighty, “in-depth” study of Exodus when my dad passed away and then afterwards didn’t feel I had the emotional energy to continue. So I picked up this devotional study and it has refreshed my soul. I hope you don’t judge me too harshly for “giving up” on my tougher study, I do plan to go back and finish it. But this absolutely has been the right thing for me in this season.

  • I’m thankful for the conviction of the Holy Spirit that just keeps at me and keeps at me. How I need it! And how thankful I am that He doesn’t give up on me even when I feel I’m a lost cause.
  • I’m thankful for my church family and especially my pastor. It’s an unspeakable blessing to have people and pastors who are always “in your corner.” And to have a church that is committed to faithfully and rightly handling the word of truth is something worth performing a happy jig over, in my opinion 🙂